My boyfriend lies. I don’t want to break up but I want him to stop!?

My boyfriend lies. I don’t want to break up but I want him to stop!?

He lies about looking at porn on his computer. I’ve found the links and he claims he has no idea how they got there but it’s pretty obvious to me. I wouldn’t mind him looking if he were just honest about it and let me in the loop.
Also, he’s an artist and he sometimes lies about his artwork. For example, he bought me a painting from Ikea and claimed it was his own work. When I took it down, I noticed the barcode and called him out on it. At first he denied it but then he broke down and admitted he lied to impress me.
Now, he’s supposed to do a painting for my sister and he sent her a picture of a sketch he said he did, but he really stole it from deviantart.com.

I’m sick of it. It’s caused a number of fights and now I’m not sure I trust him anymore. We’ve been together three years and I love everything else about our relationship. How do I handle this?

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2 Comments for My boyfriend lies. I don’t want to break up but I want him to stop!?

  • 1. RedRabbit  |  February 15th, 2011 at 7:58 am

    Leave. He hasn’t stopped lying now and he probably won’t if you ask him. Do you really want to be stuck with a liar the rest of your life? And he has no reason to lie.

  • 2. driftrs girl  |  February 15th, 2011 at 7:59 am

    Ok this is how. Tell him he needs to stop. He obviously knows how you are feeling since its been 3 years. Tell him to stop the porn, the lies, and what ever else he does. If he really loves you and think you are worth it than he will. If not than leave him because obviously he proved you aren’t that important. Also talk to him about why he lies to you about the art work.

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